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What's the best* online community—I include things like work Slacks, project-specific communities, and communities formed on platforms or in the cracks between platforms—that you've ever been a part of? Don't overthink it, what's the thing that comes instantly to mind?

* Most fun, least terrible, most generative, whatever.

Disclosure: I'll never quote you without asking, but I *am* in research mode for a thing that will be public someday, in case that matters.

Boosts super-welcome. 💫

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in reply to Erin Kissane

Couchsurfing use to be so, so good. I’ve made multiple lifelong friends because of that website. The community just isn’t the same anymore, though.
in reply to Justin Pot

@jhpot I've heard lots of people say this about Couchsurfing, and I regret never getting involved. 😞
in reply to Erin Kissane

@Erin Kissane usenet before the spam took over. The alt.tv.red-dwarf e.g. was fun if you meant a specific newsgroup.
in reply to Gidi Kroon

@gidi Waaaay back when, I was a participant in soc.motss which was another terrific formative online space for me.
in reply to Erin Kissane

in reply to Jeff

That first point is one that's not easy to address. Ideally you'd have something that limits people in a way that's fair, but another community I'm still part of had a good solution: account creation is only open a few times a year.

That means that users need to be patient to join and seem to be more thoughtful about what they post. They also seem to be more likely to resolve arguments and conflicts in a constructive way, although that may also be due to the fact that the small active userbase means they're closer to the people they're arguing with.

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in reply to Erin Kissane

For me it was and still is the PHP community. It literally changed my life. It's not a single place but a lot of different online (as well as offline) spaces. Email-List, IRC, Slack, Discord, Twitter, Mastodon et al